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Everyone Communicates But Few Connect

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A summary of John C Maxwell’s Everyone Communicates but Few Connect, what the most effective people do differently.

As part of my personal development, I managed to pick this book at the local library. I found this title to be interesting and it is a puzzle I’m personally grappling with. On instagram, it seemed that many of my friends were interested to read this book but they do not have the access to this book or lack of time. Hence, I was motivated to jot down key points illustrated in the book, which might be essential for your personal development too.

John C. Maxwell shares principles and practices of connecting for readers who want to connect with different types and levels of audiences. Be it a large group or a one-to-one conversation.

Connecting Principles 

Connecting Practices

How to cultivate a common ground mindset?


Adaptability is becoming an essential skill in this changing world.

There is a great deal of difference between knowing and understanding. You can know a lot about something and not really understand it.

Charles F. Kettering

To be simple is to be great

Ralph Waldo Emerson

So how do you keep it simple?

Create an experience everyone enjoys. 

We tend to remember people who were entertaining, so how do we create that experience listeners want?

Inspire people

This is the formula to how people are inspired : 

What they know + What they see + what they feel = inspiration

Lets breakdown the formula

What people need to know? 

Management is about persuading people to do things that they don’t want to do. Leadership is about influencing people to do what they never thought of. 

Steve Jobs

What people need to see?

What people need to feel?

Action – Inspiration (at the highest level)

Connectors live what they communicate

At the end of the day, you must be the message. Connect with yourself to understand your weaknesses and strengths in order to connect with others on common ground. If you’re unclear of yourself, how do you see others’ views clearly? Ultimately be comfortable with what you have and make the most out of it. 

Here are some tips to start connecting with yourself : 

At the end of the day, these practices may seem straightforward but putting it to use and striving to be a better connector is tough. This is a journey and not a destination, take things slow and grow.

After close examination there was one theme which kept revolving – authenticity. Be genuine in what you do because people can feel and see through.

I would love to hear them what would be the one or two things you would walk away with from this summary?

P.S Are you looking for some inspiration on what to do for summer or the upcoming semester? Check out Beatrice’s blog, my fellow Career Champion, right over here. If you need help to polish the resume that you are working on for your career or internship application, feel free to get in touch with me on instagram @defoodladie or drop me an email.

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